I think NATO expansion was a huge mistake and especially US pushed so hard for Ukraine.
The build up started almost immediately after the fall of USSR in 1990s with US backing Chechnya wars. Around that time you have US strategists openly support the balkanisation of Russia. Then NATO expansion, US exit for anti-ballistic treaty, more NATO expansion, Orange Revolution, Ukraine invited, Maidan regime change, Minsk Agreements etc. In retrospect, Russophobia had nothing to do with Communism, or Russia would have received the Poland treatment after USSR; it is a British Empire legacy that goes back to 1850s.
In all, I can understand why Russians freaked out.
@____no5 - I know you hate it when people take apart your posts and go through it argument by argument. I was considering doing this here, but I thought better of it. I just want to ask you two questions: 1. Does Ukraine really have no agency at all? 2. Why does Ukraine want to join NATO?
Just think about these questions, just please allow yourself to consider the other side.