Indeed, if it wasn't a systematic killing, then how do you explain the death of a million people who were all of Armenian descent?
Armenians were killing local Turkish people in efforts to gain their national independence and they were allied by the ones we fought against. It doesn't matter if they deserved to be independent or not, they were on the other side, that's how war works, sadly. They were forced to leave their place and go to another planned region. (which was also a part of Turkish land) There's a simple explanation. Armenian people were battling with epidemic illnesses and they were of course people who weren't fond of them on their way. It's known that some Armenians were kidnapped by other countries' forces and put to other regions. There are many who joined Russian army. Like I've said before, that can happen anywhere and it's not a proof that the government itself systematically planned it.
Check out the 1918 pressing of the Encyclopedia Britannica. It says that around 600k Armenians were killed. In its 1968 pressing the number was 1,5 million. It always gets higher and higher, the number is never steady. Wonder why ?
Another thing about it the population records at the time. According to 1917 British Annual, there were 1.056.000 Armenians in Ottoman Empire. The number is always around one million in the sources from that era. But Armenian Genocide assertions now claim that 1,5 million Armenians were killed. There WEREN'T 1,5 million Armenians in the Empire let alone being killed. (Ottoman Empire's records say that there were 1.001.465 Armenians in 1893, 1.120.748 in 1906 and 1.221.850 in 1914. The number of people who were forced to migrate was 438.758 according to Empire's records. Where are those "1 million" people you talk about ? (you could say killing 438.758 people -which wasn't also the case- also counts as a genocide but with all these stretches in these arguments, how can you be sure that what you believe in is all true ?)
I can name all my sources in writing those, but that'd take too much time for a discussion on a forum.
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About Atatürk's policies against them which aren't related to Empire's policies as you know, Armenian land wasn't a part of "Misak-ı Milli" so we had no intention to invade over their land.
I do get your criticisms of him on cultural and educational policies. Kurdish subject is a whole different thing that has so many views to it. Many consider the events on Dersim Rebellion a genocide too, but it also wasn't a systematic action of killing a certain ethnic group. Still, with all you don't like about him, I don't think it's enough to be a reason not to like him, especially when you're a part of the Turkish youth, considering the very points I made at the start of this discussion all of which you agreed with. And that now we now need his thoughts and ideologies even more than ever, it really isn't idolatry that I wear a necklace that has his portrait carved on it. It's a message, a message that stands against the fundamental islamist, undemocratic and pathetic situation we now live under and that we'll never forget him even though the government tries as hard as they can to make us forget him.