It’s interesting how much people who don’t like Kiss are interested in talking about kiss. I get it to some degree, my fascination with their history is greater than my love of their music, although at the same time I still enjoy their music just fine.
Gene definitely made a persona for himself that doesn’t seem very grounded in reality. It’s pretty obvious that without Paul guiding the ship in the 80s and 90s, Kiss wouldn’t have made it through those tumultuous periods. It also seems obvious that sometime in the late 80s, Gene lost quite a bit of credibility and consequently control of the inner workings of the band. They still publicly put out the image of being an equal partnership, but I doubt anybody (including Gene) is allowed to say no to Paul Stanley. This is a contrast to the early 80s when the band continued with the makeup on when Paul had expressed being ready to take the makeup off. Obviously once the makeup finally did come off, it became Paul’s band.