❤ Dating Advice For MaidenFans Thread ❤

Ugh the, "I'm busy" or "don't know when I'll be free" is such a lame excuse. It's either their way to control the situation or they're legitimately busy. Both suck, because in one scenario they like playing games and that's just juvenile and immature or they don't know what they really want sooo, why are they on the app to begin with?
Also, don't think with your dick and flirt with the girl with a boyfriend. Never ends well.

All the people disagreeing with me in 3, 2, 1...
I strongly disagree! Flirt with impunity, no one should be beyond your charms, attached or otherwise, start affairs, wreck homes, make videos!
 
And share those videos on maidenfans. :D

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Also, don't think with your dick and flirt with the girl with a boyfriend. Never ends well.

Nah, it's doable ;)

So, about twice I managed to steal someone's gf more or less in front of the bloke; once, after we ran into each other, I got my ex to actually ask me for a threesome with her new boyfriend, but I declined, so it ended just with slight soft petting under the table which I'm not sure if he was or wasn't aware of and to get purely technical, wifey was still dating someone when we were on our first date (she broke it off with him immediately afterwards).
I don't condone either of those things, except possibly the last one.


EDIT: Oh, also once on my wife's then boss' wedding I was really drunk and had a rather rowdy dance with a woman there that was the wife of a very important judge and a professor of criminal law at our school... and he was really giving me the evil eye... but that one's more of a fun story than anything else.
 
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What about seeing a professional sex worker in the meantime?

I would say this even before conversion (in fact, I said something similar to a classmate, whom me and my friends thankfully managed to discourage from the idea), so this is not an example of my "current bias", so to speak and I'm not speaking just from the moral point of view - but considering Saap's general situation as I gather it from this and the mental health thread and other threads, that is an exceptionally terrible idea. Sexual frustration is unpleasant, true, but there are worse (and possibly irreversible) things to experience.
 
Well encountering a professional, a classy one, i.e., an escort not a girl from streets /brothels, I don’t see much risk except 1) Saap falling in love immediately and 2) getting addicted with this (quite expensive) experience, he can’t cope with it financially so he gets depressed.

Both risks are real, but risk is part of the game of life. I see value in acting and trying to quench one’s thirst. Action gets you to a next level at least up or down, staying still only gets you in dark places and down.
And these are no deadly risks in any case.
 
Few days ago I succumbed to Tinder's call (again). I got a match that first night and the girl texted me first (!) in the morning. It's the only time since I created my first Tinder account in 2018 that a girl is responding to me with full answers, with more than 1 message, with interesting stuff, and asking me questions.

Can't wait to see how I fuck this up. The possibilities are endless.
 
I don't know how to smoothly move the conversation to meeting up, but not pushing it as she has a line in her bio that she won't meet up with anyone so easily.
 
^ Dude you know my wife. You know she's my soulmate and my best friend, and how much I love her and adore her and respect her, and yet she's absolutely not "my type", and very few people have managed to annoy me or upset me the way she has, for decades now, but this doesn't matter at all.
You can't find a partner corresponding to some pattern in your brain, you just keep meeting real people until.
 
^ Dude you know my wife. You know she's my soulmate and my best friend, and how much I love her and adore her and respect her, and yet she's absolutely not "my type", and very few people have managed to annoy me or upset me the way she has, for decades now, but this doesn't matter at all.
You can't find a partner corresponding to some pattern in your brain, you just keep meeting real people until.

Very wise words.
 
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