Lamia020281
Educated Fool
You're right! I had never even paid any attention to it, but yes, it's not customary here to make eye contact to people you don't know. Finns usually just sort of pretend the other person isn't even there. We value our "personal space", but I can imagine that people from different cultures may feel quite uncomfortable if they're not used to that kind of treatment.People in the Nordic countries freak me out because they refuse to make eye contact with me, but I'm told it's quite normal.
About the pick-up artistry: I have actually been chatted up in the street in Finland a few times. None of those men spoke Finnish. They were clearly tourists or had been here for a short time only. All of them were quite good-looking and pleasant, actually, but it totally freaked me out that they approached me in the street, so I didn't even consider getting to know them any further. One of them was a bit more straightforward, he asked right away if I wanted to have sex with him. I didn't, though.