I just don't believe it is a far left principle to use one's speech to object to the speech/actions of others.
Nor do I. Speech itself is fine, and should be encouraged.
Maybe we disagree on this, but having been emotionally & psychologically harmed, to the point of needing intense therapy to function onb a day to day basis, without someone ever laying a hand upon me, I can firmly say that the attitude of "words are meaningless" is both false and itself harmful
Sorry you had that experience. To be clear, I’m not saying that words are meaningless, or that the emotional pain someone can feel from mistreatment is irrelevant. But it is fundamentally different from physical harm, and it is not reasonable to automatically lay blame at the feet of a person who says something that when viewed through the very specific prism of your own feelings and interpretation lands an emotional blow. Just because you feel hurt does not automatically mean that the other person is at fault. And even if the other person said something with the
intention of hurting your feelings, that doesn’t mean that any behavior you choose for yourself in response is automatically their fault either.
It didn’t used to be common for grown young adults to break down into sobbing messes when confronted with ideas they didn’t like. This is a recent phenomenon, and it’s bizarre. It also doesn’t work very well in a society where people have a fundamental right to say whatever they please, which will often be something you don’t agree with. Why is it that generations of people figured out how to suck it up and deal with this reality, but now it’s suddenly become some insurmountable emotional challenge?
In fact, this discussion has caused harm to members of this forum, who've spoken to me privately about it
Wow.
I will ask that you please stop putting words in my mouth. For example, I didn't say the person bullying someone into suicide was guilty of murder, yet you act as if I did. I said they were at fault.
Typically when someone is deemed “at fault” for the death of another, you’re talking some form of homicide charge. You are correct that I didn’t explicitly enumerate manslaughter and negligent homicide as options. Sorry about that. If that still doesn’t accurately cover the intent of what you said, then I’d argue that you didn’t express your intent very clearly.
the good professor can learn from this by better communicating what's about to happen
This is also a very recent phenomenon — warning people that they’re about to see or hear content that might be an emotional trigger for them, even on news programs. It’s bizarre. When I was a kid, 5th or 6th grade, one day at school they separated the boys and the girls and took them off to watch sex ed movies. I wound up seeing some old black and white thing with sailors showing their STD-ravaged penises to the doctor on the ship. I sure as shit didn’t get a content warning beforehand, and while the experience was unpleasant and certainly left an impression, it wasn’t scarring, and it was standard practice in public school at the time. Today it seems like both the parents and the children would have an emotional meltdown if this was still going on. What changed? When did everyone become so fragile?
My question for you is: why are you the arbiter of what is "correct cancellation" and what is "incorrect cancellation"? Why is it that your opinion for what's right is the correct one, and why the opinion of the progressive left (often female, minority, etc) incorrect?
And my question would be how could you have walked away from reading my comments with the impression that I was promoting some arbitrary personal view as superior to everyone else’s? I was extremely explicit about this: “No one is qualified to dictate for everyone which ideas have merit and which do not, and that’s why the expression of all ideas has to be protected, even ones that most people would agree are repugnant.” Free expression of
ideas should be absolute.
Regarding the specifics of cancellation, it’s not some line I’ve personally drawn, it’s the line between free speech and arguably criminal activity. You are correct that I shouldn’t have used the term “blackmail” before to describe cancellation tactics, because the threat doesn’t always relate to revealing damaging information. “Extortion“ is the technically correct term. The mob extorts a ritual shaming from the target that must meet their specific parameters, or else they will make a concerted effort to cut off the person’s livelihood. Sorry, but a ransom note is not protected free speech.
I humbly suggest the following answer: because it's not coming from the traditional places of power - cishet, Caucasian men. And the midwest, being as it is, overwhelmingly white, is threatened by the use of power from non-white sources. And that's human nature! But it's incumbent upon us to recognize our biases - and I think that a lot of people in that region don't really see it that way.
This is a pretty stunning, out of left field accusation. By your own standards this should be considered emotionally harmful speech and you should be censured for it. Surely, wrongly accusing a person of racial and gender bias, and then making gross generalizations about an entire region of people at the same time is outrageously hurtful, and if I were to self-harm in response you would clearly be deserving of the blame! (Don’t you see how absurd all of that sounds?)
What if I told you that my multiracial trans nephew had written the last few messages I posted in this thread? Would that change your view of the arguments made? And if so,
should it?
I’m not trying to be mean in saying this, but your response here just sounds like lame kneejerk progressive talking points. Falling back on accusations of bias because, well, that’s what people do these days, I guess?
My wife is Asian. I’ve been in long-term relationships with Hispanic and black women before I met my wife. I really do have a multiracial trans nephew. I’ve lived in other parts of the U.S. for significant periods of time. Your “humble suggestion” is laughable on its face, and fairly offensive to boot. I shouldn’t have to rattle off my racial and gender identity bona fides to parry your prejudicial take on my views based on my own race and geography. Good thing that I can somehow find the strength to not fall apart emotionally, dox you, and organize a mob to get you fired from your day job. Though I guess you’d think I’d be perfectly justified in doing so if I felt so inclined.
While I roll my eyes at the boycotts I don't like, I also will vote with my wallet. Associating with the products I think are being wrongfully boycotted, etc. To me, this is how it's supposed to work. Maybe for you, that speech should be suppressed when you don't like it, or think it might be wrongly used
See, a comment like this makes me question how much attention you actually paid to anything I wrote. How on earth did you land on the impression that I was against actual free speech, when the whole foundation of my point was about preserving it? How did you decide that my position was racially biased when race wasn’t a core component of my argument, and the only times I touched on race were in giving examples of how cancellation tactics mirror some of the tactics used to marginalize minorities, and in pointing out that it’s not racist for a kid to want to look like their idol of a different race when dressing up like them? This just leaves me shaking my head.
Let me make it as clear as I possibly can:
Free speech good. Extortion bad. Maybe we should leave it at that.