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In Estonia it's 14 to have sex, 16 to drive with an adult sitting next to you, 18 to drive alone and buy alcohol, 21 for casino. I don't know about going to jail.

Also, I think it's 14 to drive a light vehicle or something similar.
 
I've got a question for you guys. Considering I had been telling "that girl" every single detail of my feelings and my mood changes, should I..

A ) Spill Out : Tell her that I'm over her immediately ?
B ) Take the Time : Wait and tell her after a while ?
C ) Play It Cool : Never tell her and just act normally ?

A : I'm pretty sure she'd be really happy to hear that I'm over her and it may have positive effects on our friendship. On the other hand, the fact that I got over her almost instantly all of a sudden may seem odd.
C : Avoiding the explaining part at all costs this time may work and just acting normally may work for my benefit. On the other hand, I'm really excited to tell her about my change of scenery and not telling her may mean "never finding out" because I really am an odd person in terms of expressions. (ala acting normally)
B : Giving time and then telling her can eliminate the negative effects of A and C. But at the same time, finding the "right" time can drive me nuts and intercept my happiness of getting over her.

What do you think ? It perhaps is the closing chapter of my story.

[By the way apart from this forum and my family, "that girl" was one of the four people who remembered my birthday (I don't have anything to remind them, Facebook etc.) and celebrated it. Glad to see our friendship still stands.]
 
Happy b'bay Flash!!

Speaking of which, I don't see any alerts like the old forum had.. How we know if it's someone's b'day???

So we have Flash, Mosh & Shadow, all bright & interesting young men, keep on like this guys!!
 
Good question Flash. Maybe the girls here on the forum are better at answering that question :D but, just act naturally? Since you are not obsessing over her anymore, you just act naturally and be a friend around her like she is a friend to you then I'm sure she'll notice on her own. There is no reason for you to prove to her that you don't like her like that anymore. Just hang around her like you would your normal friends and start seeing other girls.
 
I took a knife and made an E on my left arm for a girl when I was in your age, or even younger, 15.. She never learned it, even that I was liking her. Now I just laugh about it haven't seen her since the end of High School but the scar is still there.
 
______no5 said:
I took a knife and made an E on my left arm for a girl when I was in your age, or even younger, 15.. She never learned it, even that I was liking her. Now I just laugh about it haven't seen her since the end of High School but the scar is still there.
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Elisabeth? Estelle? Eileen?? :D
 
______no5 said:
WHAAAAAT?? I didn't know that, fucking great!! Why you didn't tell us?? Or you did and I missed it??

I'm proud of you :)
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dude, you had to miss, like, 17 pages of advice and replys about it.

also, Flash, my advice is to do the opposite of what I advise, so I'd smack her on the ass, kiss her cheek and say "Hey baby, wanna go for a ride?"

*Actually, this worked once, it made up for all the slaps to the face, punches to the arm and growly looks from boyfriends :)
 
______no5 said:
I took a knife and made an E on my left arm for a girl when I was in your age, or even younger, 15.. She never learned it, even that I was liking her. Now I just laugh about it haven't seen her since the end of High School but the scar is still there.
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Hah, coincidence, my (old) girl's name also starts with an E. :D
 
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