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If a woman goes to post at Maidenfans.com, I am automatically going by the assumption that she is the exception to prove the rule.

Still, I've been thinking about this thing that happened to me something like two or three years ago, and maybe you can explain it to me. I met this girl, who is nice, beautiful and intelligent - three things that rarely go together - and whom I clicked with right from the start. I mean really, right from the start: I met her when we were both asking a dj for a song, and I talked crap about the one she wanted (I think it was something like Disturbed). She went straight to the bar with me. We met a few times afterwards, developed mutual interest in what we do, became friends, and I couldn't help but think that she was drawn to me. She did say things about me being great and sweet and whatnot, and I was sure that it was going to mean she thinks of me the way I described to Flash above. Whenever I said something in that direction she told me she really thinks I'm attractive, how she gets lost in my eyes, blablabla. So we went out to a party once, in a group of three or four, and met lots of other people there, all of whom both of us knew and considered friends. Yet she stuck with me the whole evening. We were dancing, cuddling, kissing, and the thing really went to sparks when they played Heaven and Hell, a song we both adore. No innuendo here, I am a romantic, believe it or not. Anyway, that whole cuddling and kissing went on until we went till the tube station, where I decided to wrap it up and stuck my tongue into her mouth. She pushed me back in shock and said something to the effect of, "watch it, buster!".

A few months later she got together with some fat guy who was pretty stupid and did not seem to care for anything she did. In one of her drunken ramblings, she more or less admitted that she got together with him because he's blowing her brains out in bed.

WHAT THE FUCK!
 
Okay, this is a tough one.
I can try to explain but I'm afraid that my explanation would just serve as evidence of how illogical women sometimes are, which would just prove your case and mean I lose mine anyway. :confused:

Basically, women have different approach to and expectations from each different man. Maybe she wanted to take things slow with you, enjoy the game and keep the thrill for longer. You know, the feeling that you can drive someone mad and have power over him is quite invigorating. Like, I can make him come back for more, you know. It's not a good thing, I know, but sometimes you just can't resist. As for that other guy - it's obvious, she likes sex with him and that is what keeps her with him. Which means that she would dump him the second someone else has something better to offer. Women don't let go of one man unless they are sure they have another one to cling to.

I'd say, there is some logic in her behaviour, maybe strange logic but it is logic, after all.

From my personal experience and from what I know about my friends, the faster you get in someone's bed, the less you care for him. So not sleeping with a guy often means that we care about him. Ridiculous, I know.
 
I wrote a comment that explained my and her stance on this matter, the experiences I've heard from my mother and father (believe it or not, my father was in exactly the same position as me about my mom), some possible cultural differences between you and me and why I was confident and why I believe what I did was truly right.

I tried to post it on my phone, it failed, I said "Fuck it" and didn't bother to write it once again.

Again I appreciate the help and care you put in this and like I've said before, even though I didn't follow all of your advices, if it wasn't for your encouragement, I wouldn't have done the best thing I could possibly can.

I'll just say the thing I'll do know : Waiting and not forcing anything.

Glad this is over, now let's move on to other discussions. I don't want to be known as The "Hopeless Lover" Flash. :p

P.S. : I absolutely disagree with the way you see women, but I won't participate in that conversation.
 
Oh, I just hafta weigh in!! Also.... if this was the old forum, you may have seen a nick change to 'The Hopeless Lover Flash'. :)

I love women. They are straight up fun. And crazy. And they clearly do not think like guys. We typically think/feel on a fairly even basis-- as a wave form, it would be a fairly straight line with a few movements up and down, but very consistent. Women, however, are very peak and valley like. They have blinding highs of feelings towards us that eclipse our own towards them and deep dark lows that makes us wonder how they could ever even want to talk to us. It just is. I don't state this purely from observation, but from talking to many of my women friends. I sometimes think they don't play games on purpose, it just happens.

Now, I'll say this. If you have a girl that is a really good friend, like she can tell you anything, do anything, you can cross into the 'more than friend' realm. However, be very wary of the girl that has you as a 'kinda friend'... the one that asks you to go to a movie after someone else has ditched her, the one that goes to the bar with you at 10pm on a friday, once she found out that some other guy wasn't available. You aren't 'the good guy' for saving her night, you're her backup plan. And always will be. That is a really bad place to be.

And that is more seriousness than Wasted likes to devote to in a given day! ;)
 
Sennheiser. But I don't know the exact model, I already got rid of the box. Totally blowing my ears off right now. .
 
I just looked up their site and they look really nice! I'm always on the look out for a good pair of phones though, I am quite happy with the ones I have already at home but maybe a new pair of earbuds for my ipod are in my future.
 
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