To elaborate on this a bit, and to Foro first:
A terrible attack happened in the country Flash is from and posts from. That, in itself, already warrants at least some sort of respect in dealing with it. Why? Because civilised human interaction forbids offending and insulting people, no matter what country they are from.
Flash is not Turkey and not the Turkish government. By saying
your government and
your country repeatedly, this distinction however is diminished. It sounds accusing. It sounds like Flash is being made responsible for whatever Turkey does, whatever happens to Turkey, and that
he had all this coming. This is not the case. As far as I know, Flash did not vote for the current government, and he never harmed a Kurd. Hence, Flash is the wrong address here.
Flash, however, is a Turk. Hence, he has a different view on these matters than all the rest of us who are not from Turkey do. This is something that needs to be respected. Foro, you know the events that are happening in Turkey from the evening news. Flash knows them because these events are happening to him. Can you imagine what it feels like to have somebody from the outside, with no affiliation to your country, your environment and your reality whatsoever, to come and hold the preaching finger and say "you had it coming because my evening news told me so"?
Turkey is threatened by
war. To us in Europe, war means sending a few planes abroad, being shocked that a soldier of ours dies there and figuring out how to deal with the few refugees that made it as far as our countries. Turkey, on the other hand, is at the front. If it goes to war with IS, it means fighting will be inside their country. You may think that Turkey should do that, you're entitled to that, but at the very least, try to understand why people like Flash are not exactly excited by that idea.
Now, as Flash said, he has lost relatives to Kurdish terrorists. This, again, is something that we don't understand if we don't live it. But at least try to imagine what it may feel like to him if somebody who knows about the Kurds only from the evening news comes to him and takes up the Kurdish cause. The Kurds are not all innocent lambs. They don't deserve what IS is doing to them, but a person is not a pure, innocent victim just by merit of being a Kurd. Now, you are again entitled to think that the Kurds have the right to fight against oppression - and I agree - and that part of this oppression is coming from the Turkish state, and again I agree. But Flash is not the Turkish state. And I also don't believe that killing innocent people just because they're Turkish is the right thing for the Kurds to do. But that's a different discussion.
And now to Flash:
Regarding all this, I think you should still give Foro the benefit of doubt that he didn't mean to offend you in person. I know that's hard, but just as I ask Foro to at least try and see things from your point of view, I would ask you the same. Fact is, Foro does only know these things from the news, and to him it
is outsider talk. To Foro, the Kurdish cause is important, and he sometimes posts things in what he calls a 'sharp' manner. But it's not like he's a robot - see
this post.
And now, I'm going to make this absolutely clear: I'm not going to tolerate any further fighting in this thread. I ask both of you, both Foro and Flash, to keep this up in a civilised manner. In fact, I'm going to make this rule here: Neither Foro nor Flash are allowed to make one further post addressed at the other in this thread that uses the word "you". I know this sounds odd, but right now that's the only way I can see this moving away from a personal level. For every "you" either side uses, they will be banned from replying to this thread for 24 hours. Exceptions will only be made in quotes or in portions of the posts addressing other members. No "you" from Flash to Foro and no "you" from Foro to Flash. No "generic you" either. Not even in figure of speech. Not at all.