Since this is apparently a forever account, I’ll hop in with more feedback.
My position wasn’t extreme. In fact, my argument was for moderate politics focused on solving practical public policy problems rather than ideological polemics.
I get jumped on by this person, who apparently thrives on the attention and is pulling what I see as online troll moves designed to irritate people rather than engage in a discussion.
These included:
Outright incivility. We’re not even that far apart on opinion but wow, it’s zero sum ideology, innit?
Recursive demands for evidence, ignoring what was provided, and them providing none in return. More irritating is using that laugh emoji tag in a dismissive way when asked to back up what they’re saying.
Demanding attention even when not directly addressed and when I was talking with others.
When mentioned — whoa, look out, that person was mentioned. Holy shit.
Then, a milder echo of disagreement from Perun, a little bit of reasonable disagreement or balance from Mosh, a ton of sincerity from Judas and Azas and some agreement from others like Jer.
But holy shit, some snark from a few other people (Black Abyss thanks for the lesson on ambiguity in subject/predicate.).
When it got to where it was the “Sheriff vs. the unnamed one” thread and wasn’t even about the topic anymore (thanks for that revelation, Diesel 11), I realized it was pointless. I was the one who had been trolled.
Well played. Hat’s off. Another person chased off.
For my part, I could’ve had a much thicker skin. My general frustration with US Politics right now contributed to my cranky disposition.
MODERATOR EDIT: inflammatory content removed
Mate, I've been there. As you can see from my posts above, there are people here that I never want to see again and who rile me up like no-one else. As you can see from the thread, there are other people who have problems with certain members and being bigger chess afficionados than me, are more prone to keep playing chess with a pigeon. And you aren't even the first person to get dissuaded from visiting the forum altogether from the constant circlejerk - I remember certain members privately expressing their bafflement how
SinisterMinisterX for example decided to leave the forum for this exact reason around the time of his reversion and that was
years ago; I left several times for different reasons, but for the first time it was because of this, then just last Autumn I last went away for half a year, despite having been a member for over ten years, posting thousands of messages and knowing several people here by their real name (
Magnus and
Onhell, for whom I didn't have other contect, could tell you of my frustration that I expressed in way too long DMs).
Unfortunately, the forum has a significant bent, that much is true. I expressed my frustration at this many times to no avail so that's something people have to get used to, which I admit is annoying. Yeah, people who stray from the official party line tend to get a bit ganged upon, that is unfortunate. Still, if you put certain members on the
ignore list and decide to stick to your guns, even these politics forums get manageable and these are the worst - the rest of the forum is really good, otherwise I wouldn't be visiting it for this long. Unfortunately, you can't put mods on ignore, but only rarely do you get in conflict with a mod in particular and since
Loosey is currently somewhere away, the mod political disbalance is actually rather palatable at the moment, for what it's worth. Otherwise, you can
click ignore with every other member of the forum and I'd recommend trying that to personalise your experience, so to speak and still give it a try. Even giving the politics thread a bit of a cooldown, for starters.
(For what it's worth, I think with
Black Abyss Babe it must have been some kind of misunderstanding, she's one of the few people here I have on social media as well and literally never saw her behaving inappropriately in her life anywhere - maybe don't dwell on that, even if you feel you were slighted by her)
I get it if you want to take some time off, but although this development was unfortunate and must have tainted your view, don't succumb to that - as you yourself have noted, many people (and I'd argue, most) behaved in a decent manner towards you.
But then again, the fact that after everything you're being edited by a mod (which is something I've seen probably only once or twice in the 12 years I've been a member) makes me stare at the screen in stupefied disturbance and honestly, I don't blame you if you decide not to return.