"...rather than come to the table and figure this out like adults."
This is so bad and scary on so many different levels. To sit at one table with the murderer and the one who breaks all international laws. Who laughs at the West from his cave in Moscow. Instead of shooting him as a mad animal. Instead of showing him that the West still has some dignity and principles left. With such approach US soon will be giving up all of Eastern Europe (if not all Europe) and all of its commitments. I said it many times, appeasement does not work with a dictator, it only shows to him that all he is doing is justified and that he is winning. It shows to him that his assessment of the West was true and right (that the West is decadent and weak, self absorbed and only speaks rightful things but does not implements them with full force when faces an opponent who is willing to fight)
To sit at one table with the one who is faking negotiations and continues to kill and erode. Yet you, on the other hand, try to convince yourself that "we're dealing like adults". Yeah, right. Adequate adults would have eliminated putin and his cronies in the first year of the war. Adequate adults would give Ukraine all the necessary weapons to achieve just peace.
But no, instead you think that it's my position that leads to "burning all to the ground". I'll tell you that with current U.S. politics threat of all out war just increased immensely. Now putin will start contemplate Baltics and "maybe i should test if NATO is just a paper tiger". And all of it, due to the indecisiveness of the West, due the postponement of what should have been done long ago. Monster putin is emboldened again and sees the light at the end of the tunnel...