Sigh
Why can't I just shut my mouth? It seems like no matter what I say these days, someone will end up being offended.
You said absolutely nothing wrong and my post wasn't aimed at you in any way, I thought it was self-evident. I even mentioned you among those whom I trust to be in good faith and whom I am always open to.
As for your original post, not connected with what came later
I will never understand how our society came to the conclusion that it's okay to depict people killing each other and not okay to depict them loving each other.
OK, here's a genuine answer - I think you're quite willingly confusing loving and fucking and these are not equivalent - you wouldn't want a film depicting parents "loving" their children this way.
As for the double standard - which I personally don't agree with, that is, I think violence should be just as sctrictly limited in media available to children as sex is - it probably arises from the fact that one is formative through being titillating and the other not.
Unless you're a sociopath (and then it's an altogether different can of worms), chopping off a head will not arouse you, it will not touch your personality in this regard, it won't entice you as watching something "pornographic" (which does aim at generating arousal and an attachment of almost a physical kind) does, which then also leads to the person in question not differentiating ... well, precisely between sex and love.
It is formative in a way it instills lewdness - and although I personally don't think children should be exposed to violence as well, I personally don't believe it is as formative as a result.
For example, I've been exposed to violent media ever since I was very little, and yet, although I believe sometimes violence might be necessary (as the lesser of two evils), I don't like it and I'd be only reluctantly using it. Whereas the sexual stuff I've seen even in the "normal movies" has deformed me in a way that I've been trying to fight off for some time... and it's somewhat hard to do. I do honestly find that to be more indelible.
Just my two cents why I think this double standard was born.