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Black Abyss Babe said:
Why don't you start thinking of those girls as people, and just chat to them? Stop worrying about asking them out. Nice girls aren't scary, honest!
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Yup, and I've chatted to more girls during these three months in uni than ever before, so I'm trying to improve for sure. As long as I don't have feelings for them, I bet I'm a pretty good conversation partner. I just wish I could be the same around people I care for, instead of becoming socially inept, losing my sense of humor etc. Eventually I will have to ask someone out or be the guy who lets others have the girls forever. Of course, it's best not to worry about it and focus on the moment.
 
Saapanael said:
Eventually I will have to ask someone out or be the guy who lets others have the girls forever.
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Had it occured to you that most girls have all the same concerns, the same worries, as you? There's probably a girl somewhere just waiting, hoping you'll ask her out, who won't mind about your social ineptness (or will find it charming) but is worried about coming across the same way herself and putting you off. You just need to be patient, that's all. Honest :).
Saapanael said:
Of course, it's best not to worry about it and focus on the moment.
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Black Abyss Babe said:
Had it occured to you that most girls have all the same concerns, the same worries, as you? There's probably a girl somewhere just waiting, hoping you'll ask her out, who won't mind about your social ineptness (or will find it charming) but is worried about coming across the same way herself and putting you off. You just need to be patient, that's all. Honest :).
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<3 I would use the heart reaction here, if the forum had one.
 
phantomoftheicarus said:
Trust me, from experience I can safely say chasing after girls who are taken is the worst thing you can do, it really didn't end well:p
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Same. I wasted a year of my life going after a girl who was taken. Her boyfriend was abusive, also addicted to cocaine and painkillers. She was completely the opposite of him. Long story short, it didn't work out. I don't talk to her anymore..

Lesson learned.
 
Collin said:
Same. I wasted a year of my life going after a girl who was taken. Her boyfriend was abusive, also addicted to cocaine and painkillers. She was completely the opposite of him. Long story short, it didn't work out. I don't talk to her anymore..

Lesson learned.
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Yeah, this girl I was after was similar. Her boyfriend could get quite nasty IIRC, and despite my attempts I never got with her although I did get her out of the relationship for her own good. We fell out not long after

I ended up seeing Slayer with that same ex boyfriend a few weeks ago and had a great laugh though, so it worked out brilliant in the end
 
phantomoftheicarus said:
Yeah, this girl I was after was similar. Her boyfriend could get quite nasty IIRC, and despite my attempts I never got with her although I did get her out of the relationship for her own good. We fell out not long after.
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I couldn't get that lucky. Last I heard she was still living with him and both of them are unemployed. Really took a toll on ol' Collin.
 
CriedWhenBrucieLeft said:
That's a terrible way to talk about your new wife. I was just making small talk with her...
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