Wow, so many things...
Per, sorry for all of that, I hope things look up soon!
Loosey... dude, so sorry... there really aren't words, but you know that all your friends here are thinking of you. And it's really nice to see you back here. I'm missing the hell out of seeing SMX and when you're gone too, it's like some of the foundation of this forum is missing.
Flash... I give a nod towards Cornfed's beating of the head on the floor. There is only one thing that I have ever learned that seems to be fairly universal in a relationship: if you are playing games for attention, you aren't going to ever be happy. Period. And the week of 'cold' and not talking... yeah, games. It doesn't work at 16 or 36 or 66. If you are into a guy/gal and she/he is into you, there are no need for games. If you hafta play them... yeah, might as well fire up sims and get worked up over a chick there.