True. And overall, I think you've brought in some very good observations and insights to this matter (/Russia's actions). You're absolutely right that it's not only about Russia just randomly deciding to act on Ukraine's territory and putting pressure to them (and others).
However, straight out propaganda, lies, threats - not only to Ukraine but to other countries as well, quite extreme hypocrisy, egoistic super power whatever bullshit and more or less made-up "justifications" for war preparations just don't and most definitely should not do.
Putin is a dictator who tries to silence and even kill his opposition. He's also supporting fellow dictator Lukashenko and using Belarus territory to add-up the threat towards Ukraine and it's capital. Russia threatens other countries and their sovereignty while no-one threatens them. None of the European countries is, or has been, even close to initiating an armed conflict here.
We are either discussing Russia's internals or externals.
I don't want to mix both. Why? Because countries have rights regardless of the shit system they operate.
To claim otherwise is to say that USA has right to spread "democracy" around the world on the grounds of their super-duper system where everyone lives in houses made of candy, which we know it's not only bollocks but it's not even statistically true - USA is behind some other NA countries and a lot of EU when it comes to that. USA
takes the right to do this stuff, because of their geostrategic position.
Everyone should also drop the notion that some random country enjoys same privileges that superpowers and regional powers do.
You may think that EU is some sort of a peers' haven but we all know who is big and who is small. Who dictates economic direction and who needs to follow.
So yeah, affairs between Ukraine and Russia and Georgia and Russia are akin to affair between Mexico and USA or Croatia and Germany.
Claiming that the lesser is free to choose its geopolitical alliance is a dangerous lie. Its natural alliance is chosen on the basis of geograhical position and the state of the powers around it in a particular time in history.
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For the internals, well, I don't have anything good to say there, but I don't want to go on a lament, the post is long as is. I've recently watched a DW documentary and what shocked me is the rift between the young and the old, deeply rooted in politics and the way the country is being run. A family can't come to terms about very important stances in life. The parents are conservative, the children are liberal, they're eating at the same table and they're a loving caring family, but politics? There's not a word of agreement there. For me it felt like a stab to the heart. If country is doing that to the founding block of it, the family, it's failing
hard. (And I really don't believe that DW pulled out a biased sample here)
P.S. just to address the "war preparations" part. Russia and Belarus are doing war exercise as a response to the war exercise done by NATO in Poland. This is normal behaviour in this dynamic that hasn't ceased even in mid 2000s when USA and Russia relations were warm. Maneuvers are always the response to maneuvers. It's normal, and a sign that the powers are just shouting against eachother because if you were planning a strike you wouldn't display your routine before it. It's showing the enemy that new technology has been operationaly developed and included in the tactics. If Russia strikes the back assets are going to strike not the border troops. There will be no boots on the ground but total dominance of the airspace and strategic airdrops.