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Interesting there's no usual European east/west or north/south statistical divide here.
The thing with Croatia is that life is so expensive, it's a sacrifice in any case. There's no chance in hell you're retaining your lifestyle after you get the baby, for the next 20-25 years, unless we're talking about "1%". So if it's your wish to have a child, the default mindset is, and should be, I'm going to grind my ass off until he gets on his feet and have little to nothing left for my own leisure.
The thing with Croatia is that life is so expensive, it's a sacrifice in any case. There's no chance in hell you're retaining your lifestyle after you get the baby, for the next 20-25 years, unless we're talking about "1%". So if it's your wish to have a child, the default mindset is, and should be, I'm going to grind my ass off until he gets on his feet and have little to nothing left for my own leisure.