I would like for Bruce to approach me and say something which would make me go: "Oh Bruce, you so nasty!" with my nasally voice and feminine hand gestures.
On a more serious note, Bruce (like many other people in this pandemic world) is not to enthusiastic about being approached by hordes of strangers every day. Just imagine amount of people Bruce is in contact with on his spoken word tour. Now add a bunch of fans and there is no wonder some of the shows had to be cancelled).
And on a more serious note: I don't think there is a wrong or right reasons for "following" somebody or being somebody's fan, but... If you remove your tattoos, rip your shirts and sell your merch just because somebody didn't sign your stuff or took a picture... Yeah, one might question its priorities. I love it how a guy in that video wrote "Bruce wouldn't be where he is without his fans" Well, why did those fans supported Bruce? Is it because they liked how he sings or is it because how he treats his fans? Is it his songs or his private life that made them spend their private time and money?
For every kind of these situation there is a context that often gets twisted. First, where it happened. Adrian once spoke that hotel is his no-fan zone. So, a if you meet him at a town square where he is sightseeing like a bunch of other tourists, I believe he would be prepared that someone would approach him. Elevator in a hotel after a gig? No class. Second, timing. I believe none of them would have a problem to say hello, nod or wave if somebody addressed them. Sign something? That's a bonus. Pose for a picture? Great! But pestering them for an hour about how "Run to the Hills" is your favorite song because your great-grandfather was1/8 Indian?! (yes, I've heard that happened to Dave). So, if you approach them politely and respectively, I doubt anybody would find itself in situation where feelings would change drastically for any one of them. Even if you do, there are million of reasons for a unpleasant experience which are way beyond your or their control. For example:
I once exchanged a couple of words with Rod Smallwood but there was a clear and not-so-subtle "Fuck off" between the lines. To some bystander it make look like he's some kind of arrogant rock-star or I'm some nerdy-pushy fan. What I didn't know at that moment is that Rod had a huge problem on his hands. What Rod didn't know is that I found myself at the right place (but wrong time!) completely by accident. It was an awkward situation and my feelings where a bit like "...damn..." but that doesn't make him a bad person, nor do I think he is doing bad job. Quite the opposite.
So, it's really a thing between discerning what is really important to you/what you really like about something. If Mr. Harris himself addressed me with "Fuck you and the memes you rode on!" I admit I'd be hurt a little. My feelings would probably be like a see-saw when I'm listening to his songs. But would that make me think last two songs on "Senjutsu" are not as awesome as I think they are? Not a chance.