❤ Dating Advice For MaidenFans Thread ❤

el diablo said:
This is easier said than done however ideally you could have told her you'd like to stay in touch and asked if she wanted to get together sometime after she returns from her trip.
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I hear you. I tend to think that if something’s meant to be, it will happen anyway. I’m just disappointed that I didn’t use this opportunity that was handed to me to the full extent. But perhaps this served as a reminder or lesson from life.
 
Things are only meant to be if you DO something, just thinking it won't move the needle. She already told you she'd be there another month, go by in a week or so and give it a shot.
 
She just cancelled our date because she met somebody else. This is a real gut punch, I was looking forward to this so much and feeling happier than I have in a long time.
 
Onhell said:
Long story short, overall a positive experience, but I agree with Judas, wouldn't recommend it in general.
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The hard part is to find one with whom there is chemistry.
I'm not doing it now as I have a great woman next to me but I would enthusiastically recommend it always! I had some mediocre experiences, some were terrible and some absolutely wonderful ones and with some of those "professionals" we eventually became kind of friends and still communicate every now and then.
 
____no5 said:
The hard part is to find one with whom there is chemistry.
... I had some mediocre experiences, some were terrible and some absolutely wonderful ones and with some of those "professionals" we eventually became kind of friends and still communicate every now and then.
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Yup, that's how it basically went, one terrible, one not so great, the rest really good. I agree with the chemistry, I recently told a friend all about it and I told him, it's no different from finding the right doctor or therapist. You have to find the one that "gets you." I feel fortunate that was the case with most. More than anything I was fascinated by the conversations we had. I'll send you a message when I get the chance.
 
Onhell said:
I agree with the chemistry, I recently told a friend all about it and I told him, it's no different from finding the right doctor or therapist. You have to find the one that "gets you." I feel fortunate that was the case with most. More than anything I was fascinated by the conversations we had.
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I am so happy for you. I think we are quite similar in our approach on that matter, which is an approach with heart.
 
Going to a sex worker feels easier abroad but I haven't tried it yet. Some European countries seem to be quite open about clubs with adult services. I'm thinking of places like Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Czechia etc.
 
Saapanael said:
Going to a sex worker feels easier abroad but I haven't tried it yet. Some European countries seem to be quite open about clubs with adult services. I'm thinking of places like Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Czechia etc.
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I'm not sure I'd recommend a sex/swinger club unless you have some experience in that world (swinging, group sex, sex in public etc).

There's rules and etiquette and ethos and the whole thing could be a bit daunting if you aren't used to group sex with strangers.

Plus one common complaint about sex clubs is inexperienced guys turning up and thinking that they can get with every woman in there, which is certainly not the case. Don't be that guy.

And it goes without saying that if meeting an escort one should be on the look out for signs of coercion/trafficking.
 
Cat Milk Supreme said:
I'm not sure I'd recommend a sex/swinger club unless you have some experience in that world (swinging, group sex, sex in public etc).

There's rules and etiquette and ethos and the whole thing could be a bit daunting if you aren't used to group sex with strangers.

Plus one common complaint about sex clubs is inexperienced guys turning up and thinking that they can get with every woman in there, which is certainly not the case. Don't be that guy.

And it goes without saying that if meeting an escort one should be on the look out for signs of coercion/trafficking.
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Aren’t swingers’ clubs a whole separate thing? I was recently in Austria and was looking for information on adult clubs and based on their websites, I thought they’re places where you hang out, have some drinks, and if you’re lucky you might get to go to a private room with a woman. Didn’t exactly give me a “swingers club” vibe reading those descriptions. I didn’t have time to go to one anyway, maybe in the future.

Cat Milk Supreme said:
You could recommend Saap sex clubs in Berlin, I suppose
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Yeah, Per. I’m going to visit Germany for the first time next August.
 
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