Forostar
Ancient Mariner
Raising a child in intitutions you are talking about is something that is not tolerated where I live. Orphanages are rare in Western Europe. I can only hope such matters will also change for the better in Eastern Europe and elsewhere.
I'm afraid there is no "just" to me in this matter. I have morals and values and they affect the way I think and discuss. Like others challenge mine I will also challenge other views if I feel like doing that. In this case by mentioning good experiences of adoption and by voicing my opinion that women should have the right to know all options that are available to them. Let them make the choice, but inform them as well as possible.It's just a choice, a personal choice, and as such it shouldn't be disputed or challenged.