My biggest probelm with the show is its protagonist, June/Offred played by Elisabeth Moss. She is GREAT, but her character... not so much. She makes some REEEEAAAAALLY dumb decisions and the show doesn't punish her. Like, early in the series another handmaid, Janine, talks back to one of the aunts, she refuses to be subjugated. Weeeeell, they poke one of her eyes out. Another handmaid, Emily, played by Bliedel, steals a car, runs over a guard, gets caught, she has her genitalia mutilated. Another, Ofglen (can't recall the actress) gets her tongue removed. Mrs. Waterford, the commander's wife, dares read a passage of the Bible to prove a point and has her pinky chopped off. June defies authority CONSTANTLY, even talks back, runs away not once, not twice, BUT THRICE! Not ONCE does she face any severe punishment. She gets poked with a cattle prod, slapped in the face, but no permanent disfigurement... not... once. w....t...f? The last time she runs away she runs away with her baby which by Gilead law is the Waterfords' baby and DECIDES TO STAY, why? Her other, older daughter is still somewhere in Gilead. So she leaves her basically newborn baby in the hands of another fugitive who may or may not make it to Canada and chooses to stay to MAYBE find and save her other daughter? what a crock of shit. She could do much more working with the Canadian and what is left of the American government. But nooooo, she wants to bring Giliad down from the inside. Right... this is where you can tell they want to milk the show for all it has.
Recently a friend of mine felt sorry about herself on Facebook saying, and I quote:
"As a feminist, I feel extra awful, somehow, when I find myself really detesting another woman, especially if she has other identities that I recognize subject her to prejudice as well. I want to be on her team, but of course she has to be willing to be on the same team as I am too. And she is just as free to not want that as I am.
I am free to not want that -- that's so hard to say."
Is it really? Like, it's hard to say you're human and it's ok to not like someone? It got me thinking about the show. It constantly shows society before Gilead through flashbacks. Moss' character is no angel. She gets involved with a married man, said man leaves his wife and marries her. We're supposed to be ok with this because they really "love" each other, aw. Fact remains she destroyed a marriage. They have a scene in which the man's soon to be ex-wife approaches her and does a Dolly Parton in Jolene. This is so REAL. Women will fight EACH OTHER over a man, when it is the man they should be upset with. June is not the one cheating here, he is. Then they have a scene after the government has fired all the women and redistributed their assets to their husbands. In their aparment we have June, her now husband, Luke and her best friend, Moira, a black lesbian. Moira gets upset for Luke reassuring June when he says, "Don't worry I'll take care of you." She says, "Wait, what? PROTECT her? She doesn't NEED your protection, ok?" "Oh, so I'm wrong for wanting to support my wife?" "MY wife? So she's your property now?" This kinda goes to my friend's comment. Everything is offensive, everything is wrong. I can say, "my friend," or "my coworker" and nobody assumes I hold ownership over them, but say "my GF" or "my wife" and all of a sudden you're a caveman from the 50s. Bliedel's character is a lesbian biology professor. In a flashback we see her teaching a class and a young black woman asks a question and she gets mansplained, by an obnoxious frat dude. Bliedel corrects him and after class she is approached by the female student. She tells her to not get discouraged by sexist idiots. Her phone rings, they both look down and the student says, "Oh that's your family?" "Yes, my wife and our son." Next seen she is being told by her deparment head, a gay man, that she is not giving classes next semester and will focus on research. There's been a complaint. She immediately thinks of the sexist frat dude, but oh surprise, the complaint was about the picture on her phone! It was the black woman that reported her! DUN DUN DUN.
I LOVE this about the show, the interactions are real, the dialogue and clashes are so spot on. So kinda ironic the showrunner is a man who had to sell this vision (dare I say mansplain) to Atwood.