Once upon a time, there was a little boy born to a family of musicians, and the boy grew, and excelled, and became a man, and married. It so happened that he listened to his wife, and followed her advice, and met people she had arranged him to meet, and then one thing led to another, and soon he was a mighty man, and a brave one and a clever one for that matter, and a talented musician, fencer and pilot, and so ruthless that some said his heart was made of iron, and he died a very painful death indeed, and is remembered to this day as the darkest figure in a dark empire, and a criminal with so many deaths to answer for that you wouldn’t think it’s even possible.
Moral: Being brave, smart and multi-talented does not necessarily make you a role model, and listening to your wife can be lethal.