Out of curiosity, which ares in Berlin and Nuremberg are you referring to? I know my way well around both places, and would be curious if we have made the same observations.
I am not 100% sure where we were at, we did not stay in Berlin, but did a day trip to there and Postsdam (which was really nice and I am guessing a very expensive place to live).
We started in Berlin around the Brandenberg Gate, went to Checkpoint Charlie, then Museum Island (though it interesting that the place we ate at across from it still had war damage on the building). When we travel, we will sometimes put the GPS to take us shortest distance versus shortest time. That way, it takes us through neighborhoods and off the main roadways through some pretty cool towns/villages. We did that when we were leaving Berlin and we basically existed the city going East and a bit South from Museum Island and went through some parts of town that had a fair amount of "thug" looking people hanging out on the streets and some pretty bad looking prostitutes. This was at night, I felt okay since we were driving, but would probably not want to be walking around. Another factor (which might just be in my head), there were some pretty large tenement lookng buildings around, I know from experience in cities like Chicago, when you see buildings like that, you are in some big time gang infested areas. That may not be the case in Berlin as I know they were build in former East Germany and when they were built, Berlin was a wreck ... not sure if that means the same thing there or not
In Nurnberg, again we were on a daytrip and stopped in Beyreuth on the way there, we did the same thing with the GPS and exited the city through what looked like some older indutrial areas and it did not look overly safe either to be walking around. The old town square and city walls (forgot what they called it) was quite nice and seemed to be a pretty safe area.
I will agree that both looked better than the bad areas of Chicago, LA, Philadelphia, or Paris for sure. I've not been to the UK or New York (beyond the airport) so cannot compare with there and both are cities I would like to go back to and be able to spend more time exploring.
I guess I should point out, we went on a vacation in North Carolina and saw some small towns that did not exactly have a "strangers welcome" kind of vibe to it, but I also got that impression from some small towns we passed through along the Czech/German border. Nothing overt in any of these cases, just a feeling.[/quote][/quote]