Urizen said:
Genghis you finally have a decent avatar to go with your nickname.
Eh! I've had that one lying about for a while. I finally got over my Arizona nostalgia and decided to remove the vacation photographs.
Anyway, back to the point.
Onhell said:
Not to mention humans are hypothetically thinking beings so to some this is a thought out strategy...
"Hypothetically" as in "they're supposed to be".
Even though I agree with Duke's point, I think Onhell has a better answer. Our evolutionary past is definitely tied to that of the chimpanzees, but our instincts alone are
not enough for survival. Our societies have developed so much in complexity and the only way to survive is to think with our large brains. Unfortunately, many humans do not do that. If instincts was all it took to survive, human cultures would not vary so much. After all, despite many cultural differences, all humans are one species.
Urizen said:
Yes, I see what you mean, I've already stated 'the less of them you have the more you can offer them' way of thinking as a reason for lower birth rates.
But what you say about couples in less developed countries having more babies is questionable. I know my country, and in Serbia the population is shrinking and yet we are considered as a less developed country. The same, if we talk about the life standards when regarding the development of a country, could be said for Russia who loses as I said 500 000- 1000 000 citizens every year. This is because in these countries(Serbia, Russia) that are not considered by any means to be third world and also not for example like Sweden or the U.S., finances(low average salary) are often cited by couples as a reason for not having more children.
That is a good point. Culture itself plays a role.
Urizen said:
And in my personal opinion and from experience, couples in high life standards countries of the West and Japan should rethink their decisions of having just one child to which they would offer full attention and resources, because it can lead to a spoiled child or one not tough enough due to all the attention it got. It can make the child less knowledgeable of taking care for itself in the future- this is at least what I saw happening in Serbia at least sometimes. I'm not sure how it is in the other countries. And the couples who opt for just one child as to ensure the passing of their one genes should think of the saying "One is for God and the other for the parents"- this is an old saying of course, but it serves as a warning that if you have only one child something can happen to it when it's say, 19 and then you'll probably be too old to have another one.
I'm going to get intimate here. Sorry. My girlfriend and I were talking about kids last night. She was of the opinion that having one child would be detrimental to the only-child because s/he would not learn proper socialization. This is similar to what you're saying.
Natalie said:
Wow, this thread got heated back there. Anyway, as I said earlier, I can understand why Urizen is addressing this subject because in Europe it is an issue. I will be bold now and say that it is not due to racism so much as a feeling of national pride (
in my opinion). I know from listening to many Austrians and from seeing the political campaigns of the far-right party here (Austria) that many people are concerned with increasing immigration and a decreasing population of 'pure' Austrians. By pure I mean non-immigrants, white, and not workers from the East. The Europeans (
I think) are afraid of becoming out-numbered at home. Since I like to be 'nice' I will say that this discomfort could be simply because everyone wants to belong to a group, and if the group you belong to is becoming smaller and smaller, you start to panic. Then again, you could also contribute this discomfort to over-weaning national pride, and yes, racism. Many Austrians (I have observed) consider immigrants to be undesirable and less good than themselves. However, this does not change the fact that the decreasing population in Europe is a problem, because it is a problem in the sense that it is an issue with which the Europeans are very concerned. Whether they are concerned with it because of racism, or because it deserves to be an issue (as opposed to AIDS in Africa which is no doubt a problem), is another matter. There, my opinion for one and all.
Disclaimer: I do not support either Onhell or Urizen. I am unaffiliated with any political party. I am capable of having an own opinion. I am short. I am Swedish. This last statement may explain anything confusing in my post.
I do not relate to this "belonging to a national/ethnic group" feeling. I have always sought out people whose ideas about the world are akin to mine, regardless of their ethnicity or cultural background. I was born in Croatia, but I do not relate to the big "Croatian feeling" that many Croatians in southern Ontario clearly feel. I have had many Croatian friends as a teenager mostly because we met through our parents, but now, I must say, I'm not close to any of them because we have very little in common. I realize that I'm probably in the minority in this regard.
Also, my father has always pressured me to hang out more with the Croatian crowd because my best friend who is Polish would "eventually forget me and start hanging out with Polish people". That's sad.
Being the stubborn guy I am, I ignored him every time.
A question for everybody:
The articles provided by Perun and Marcus discuss that many women still feel they live in a sexist society, where their dual roles as a mother and a career women are viewed as inimical or irreconcilable by society at large. Onhell also brought this up in a more specific example. This discernible contradiction in the west and Japan is apparently, at least partially, responsible for declining fertility rates.
What do the rest of you think of this conclusion? In your experience, are women unjustifiably forced to choose family over work or vice versa? Well, we all now know that this is not the case in Sweden (thanks to Anomica), but what about the rest of the countries?
I did some digging for Japan on the internet and found
this. That is a clear case of sexism and the article recapitulates everything I know about Japan's social system.