I'm not disagreeing with your overall point but I'd like to take the chance to address something I've seen expressed quite a few times. I can obviously only talk about myself, so everything I'll write will be my own experience and my own opinions.
Everyone has different ways they experience music. Personally I'm very analytical and I like to break down a performance or a recording to its absolute basics. I'll look into the chord progressions used, the keys and modes of a song, the time signature, the voice leading in the melodies and so on. Mind you, that's not something I'll set out to do, it's just how I usually perceive music. It happens automatically to some degree. I can turn it off, but I can also focus even more on that.
This might seem excessive, tedious, annoying or even absurd to others. Weirdly enough it's
fun to me. I enjoy analyzing songs. For whatever reason my brain is wired in a way where I get enjoyment out of overanalyzing music. So, it's not a case of "these people keep complaining about little (and meaningless) details instead of enjoing the music"; it's me engaging with a hobby in a way that makes it even more fun and enriches the experience for me.
I think overall we need to be better about expressing and accepting different opinions. Like with the Ghost thing, saying they suck or are a shitty band is needlessy dismissive and
boring. It stifles all potential for discussion. Explaining
why a certain band or song doesn't align with someone's tastes is far more interesting to engage with.
Sorry for the tangent, back to the topic at hand