I disagree, Raven. I initially tried guitar, only too find that my hands were too big to be comfortable on those tiny strings. One of the reasons I switched to bass is that it fit my body better. Once I built up my calluses, I never found it to be a physically difficult instrument. So if RW is a big guy like me, it's no big deal.
Now double bass - that's a different story. Try playing double bass, and electric bass seems like a toy by comparison.
And what's with this "if you want to fingerpick" crud? All real bassists play with their fingers. Bassists who use a pick should be shot.
So RW, here's what you do now: play until your fingers bleed. Then play some more. Then play some more again. Eventually, they stop bleeding.
Let me try that again, more seriously...
So RW, here's what you do now: play until your fingers have serious blisters. Then let those heal, which should take a few days. Repeat over and over. After a few cycles, you'll have good calluses.