There's a story still giving me cringes 20+ years later: my mother used to teach at Bilkent University for 15 years or so starting 1997, so I'm visiting her in 1998 I think; there's this girl, a student of hers, lovely, incredible person, we're talking about all kind of things, she observes that we Bulgarians and Turks seem to have quite a few words in common, and I automatically blurt without even thinking, well what do you expect after 500 years of Turkish yoke. I'll never forget the way her smile just went away, and she was so embarrassed and confused what the hell I'm talking about. Fucking idiot.
What I mean is, it's good to know history, it should not be forgotten or easily allowed to be falsified, but it's just bloody wrong to rub it in the face of totally innocent people.