Wagner may not due it for the erudite, but he was a damn good composer who probably got more pussy than all of Motley Crue
Looking up at other stuff in this thread, I saw this and... first, no. Wagner got his share, but you're talking about the fucking Crue.
More interesting, Wagner's sex life is actually a big part of origin of the phrase "the three B's: Bach, Beethoven and Brahms."
The phrase was coined by another B, Hans von Bulow. He was the most famous and influential conductor in Europe in the second half of the 1800s. For instance, he was the guy who started conducting everything from memory (no score or even podium), and he made that the expectation for all other top-level conductors to this day. He loved being famous, and liked to have witty answers for every question. So when someone asked his favorite composers, he would say: "The three B's of course: Bach, Beethoven and
Berlioz".
Hector Berlioz got famous about 20 years before Johannes Brahms, and that's when the phrase originated; in 1850, those
were the three big B's. But Hans didn't change right away when Brahms became a big name. By that time, von Bulow was working on a 5-year partnership with Wagner, premiering operas like
Tristan und Isolde and
Tannhauser. During these 5 years, Wagner had an affair with von Bulow's wife Cosima (herself the daughter of Franz Listz, mentor to both von Bulow and Wagner). By the end of the 5 years, everyone in Europe knew about the affair except Hans.
Finally, von Bulow found out he was the most famous cuckold in Europe and things blew up. He divorced Cosima, who married Richard and has been known to history as Cosima Wagner. Hans moved back to Vienna and began hanging out with Brahms.
European music politics at the time: Wagner and Brahms were taken by most as rivals, the leaders of the "progressive" and "conservative" schools. It was like Mets and Yankees for a New Yorker - you couldn't be a fan of both. When von Bulow became Brahm's best friend, everyone in Europe got the subtext. And when von Bulow changed to saying "Bach, Beethoven and
Brahms", everyone at the time knew it (at least in part) meant "Bach, Beethoven and Fuck Wagner".