Back in the Village
Invader
Although not a very "metal" thing to do and hard for me to admit but (to appease my wife) I sit down on a Saturday night to watch Strictly Come Dancing on BBC1. For those of you in the US it is pretty much the same show as Dancing With The Stars.
A little bit of controversy has arisen due to one of the professional dancers Anton Du Beke making "racist" comments toward his dance partner Laila Rouass, who's father is Indian and mother Moroccan. Before the first live show was to be screened, Laila had a fake tan spray and when Du Beke saw her he apparently joked to her that she looked like a "paki". I'm not sure if this is a derogatary term used in other countries but it is certainly frowned upon in the UK. There has been calls from various people for Du Beke to be sacked from the show and he is being labelled a disgrace and a racist.
But is he? Before I go on let me point out that I believe racism should not be tolerated. True racists have no place in our society and any hatred towards other groups should be punished accordingly.
However I believe the label "racist" is used far too easily nowadays in an ever increasing PC world. Is Anton Du Beke a racist for using the term "paki" to a girl of ethnic descent?
Firstly the comment was made between two people who have formed a relationship whilst training for the show together where there is a lot of banter between them
. Whilst Du Beke's comment was not apprpriate he meant no offence and was quick to apologise when he realised she had taken offence. Was it more a case of him overstepping the boundaries and making a comment that was indeed inappropriate. To me a racist is someone who has a deep founded hatred of people from different ethnic backgrounds. If this were the case Du Beke may have refused to dance with Rouass in the first place if he had a dislike/hatred of black people (not that that would have been acceptable by the way)
Rouass accepted DuBeke's apology and they have been dancing on the show together now for three weeks. I accept that the term"paki" is likely to cause offence but it doesnt necessarily mean the person using the term is a racist. I have a friend of Asian descent and we have swapped insults back and forth as friends do. I'm from MAnchester originally and he often refers to me as a " fat Manc prick". Whilst this would be a comment that could offence to some fellow Mancunians (especially as my friend is from Liverpool) it is not something I find offensive. Likewise I have called him a "scouse paki" which is equally unoffensive to him. That said I would never dream of calling anyone else that word or indeed referring to them in that way because I know it would cause offence but between two friends having banter I see no harm, providing it is not in earshot of anyone that may find it offensive.
As for Du Beke I believe his comments were inappropriate but I do not believe it is right to label him a racist because of this.
A little bit of controversy has arisen due to one of the professional dancers Anton Du Beke making "racist" comments toward his dance partner Laila Rouass, who's father is Indian and mother Moroccan. Before the first live show was to be screened, Laila had a fake tan spray and when Du Beke saw her he apparently joked to her that she looked like a "paki". I'm not sure if this is a derogatary term used in other countries but it is certainly frowned upon in the UK. There has been calls from various people for Du Beke to be sacked from the show and he is being labelled a disgrace and a racist.
But is he? Before I go on let me point out that I believe racism should not be tolerated. True racists have no place in our society and any hatred towards other groups should be punished accordingly.
However I believe the label "racist" is used far too easily nowadays in an ever increasing PC world. Is Anton Du Beke a racist for using the term "paki" to a girl of ethnic descent?
Firstly the comment was made between two people who have formed a relationship whilst training for the show together where there is a lot of banter between them
. Whilst Du Beke's comment was not apprpriate he meant no offence and was quick to apologise when he realised she had taken offence. Was it more a case of him overstepping the boundaries and making a comment that was indeed inappropriate. To me a racist is someone who has a deep founded hatred of people from different ethnic backgrounds. If this were the case Du Beke may have refused to dance with Rouass in the first place if he had a dislike/hatred of black people (not that that would have been acceptable by the way)
Rouass accepted DuBeke's apology and they have been dancing on the show together now for three weeks. I accept that the term"paki" is likely to cause offence but it doesnt necessarily mean the person using the term is a racist. I have a friend of Asian descent and we have swapped insults back and forth as friends do. I'm from MAnchester originally and he often refers to me as a " fat Manc prick". Whilst this would be a comment that could offence to some fellow Mancunians (especially as my friend is from Liverpool) it is not something I find offensive. Likewise I have called him a "scouse paki" which is equally unoffensive to him. That said I would never dream of calling anyone else that word or indeed referring to them in that way because I know it would cause offence but between two friends having banter I see no harm, providing it is not in earshot of anyone that may find it offensive.
As for Du Beke I believe his comments were inappropriate but I do not believe it is right to label him a racist because of this.